1. Decide what you want
You might be ready for a relationship, a new friendship or simply a conversation. Think about the everyday things you would enjoy sharing with another person.
2. Introduce the person behind the profile
Your hobbies, humor and interests give someone a place to start. A few accurate details are more useful than a long list of flattering adjectives. Our article on starting again includes a profile opening you can adapt.
3. Take conversations at your pace
Ask about something that interests you, listen to the reply and leave room to talk about expectations. Our section on talking about herpes can help you prepare for a more personal conversation.
4. Make a manageable first-date plan
Choose a public place, keep your own travel plans and allow yourself to decide whether you would like to meet again. See our first-date planning section.